Coaching Session Playbook

Posted on Sep 2, 2025

The Candorly Assessment offers clients insights into their workplace behaviors, strengths, and growth areas. As a coach, you help them interpret feedback, create action plans, and foster a growth mindset. Note: This guide assumes you received the report but weren't involved in its creation.

Preparing for the Coaching Conversation

Review the Report & Identify Key Themes

Read the participant's feedback report in full. Look for trends: strengths, growth opportunities, and gaps between self-perception and peer feedback (Perception Delta). This gap is key to unlocking self-awareness.

Frame Positively:

Reinforce that feedback is a tool for development, not judgment.

Structuring the Discussion

Set Expectations

Start with why feedback matters: It's a resource for growth, not performance management. Some participants may need help connecting feedback to behavioral change—remind them that strong leadership drives innovation, productivity, and business success.

Provide a Brief Overview

Spend a minute explaining the report structure and scoring system.

Explore Initial Thoughts

Ask how they felt reading the report. Many will go through emotional stages (Kubler-Ross Change Curve). Normalize this as part of human nature.

Acknowledge Strengths & Growth Areas

  • Reinforce what they do well.
  • Use open-ended questions to explore feedback constructively (e.g., "What patterns do you notice?" "What surprised you?").

Highlight the Perception Delta

Self-awareness is the foundation of leadership. Candorly's Perception Delta—the gap between a participant's self-score and their average feedback score—offers valuable insights into how participants see themselves versus how others perceive them. Make this a key part of your report discussion. Look for trends in their perception gap:

Candorly Perception Delta example
  • Do certain areas show a significantly larger or smaller gap in self-awareness?
  • Do they consistently rate themselves higher or lower than their feedback providers?

Encourage Reflection

Ask the client to summarize key takeaways and their initial reactions.

Creating an Action Plan

Prioritize & Plan

  • Focus on one to two key areas. Encourage small, manageable steps rather than overwhelming change.
  • Align feedback with specific actions and practical behaviors (e.g., "To improve communication, I will seek clarification before assuming").
  • Action planning in the first session will remain high-level as participants process the report. If there's follow up coaching, a larger percentage of time will be spent on action planning.

Build Accountability

Discuss progress measurement and who can support them.

Reinforcing a Growth Mindset

Normalize Feedback

Remind clients that constructive feedback is common for all professionals and an opportunity for growth. Moreover, as one grows as a leader, it's a rare learning opportunity many professionals never get.

Reframe Challenges

Shift from "I'm bad at this" to "This is a skill I can develop."

Encourage Ongoing Reflection

Suggest follow-ups like coaching, journaling, or peer discussions.

Next Steps & Follow-Up

Schedule a Follow-Up Coaching Session

Frame the initial report debrief as the first step in a three-phase process: insight, action, and accountability.

Session 1: Insight – Focus on the participant's initial reaction to the report and key themes and learning opportunities.

Session 2: Action – With time to reflect, this session shifts to helping develop specific behaviors to test in real-world scenarios. Coaches can help participants refine their plans, consider possible outcomes, and clarify what they hope to gain from these changes.

Session 3: Accountability – Participants reflect on their behavior experiments, what they learned, and how to sustain lasting change. This session also helps them plan for long-term accountability and support.

Offer Additional Resources: Recommend articles, books, or training aligned with their goals.

Final Thought

Your role as a coach is to foster curiosity, self-awareness, and action. Guide participants to embrace feedback, experiment with new behaviors, and take ownership of their development. Meaningful change happens through continuous learning and accountability—your coaching makes that possible.

Updated on September 2, 2025
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